black dress shoes suede Men's Plain-Toe Monk Strap — Goddard US 13 / Black / D Length EVA Cushioned Footbed Keeps Your Feet Comfort of Walking and Dancing New Men's Black Suede Formal

( Pro tip: block heels and platforms will give you the height and comfort you need to own the dance floor!) If youre not a fan of heels, a pair of dressy flats can still go a long way at a black tie optional wedding

I have a few different pairs of tall boots, but the most versatile pair in my closet is the Rickey Boot by Larroude (theyre pricey, but SO worth it since theyre high quality and a classic style-read my full review of the Larroude shoes here)

Charming sleek black satin floor-length A-line long prom dress with a sexy thigh-high slit and invisible pockets

Do you relish having happy birthday sung to you every year (like me), or do you prefer the day to slip by unnoticed